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“We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.”

-- Frederick Keonig quotes

Is there a need to have self-assurance?

During some occasions, when i need to clarify something and i required some agreement from other people that what i had just said is true from my heart and it meant nothing more. But most of the time, they just simply kept quiet and ignore me.

One situation, my colleague and i was gathering around after lunch. We had brought some fruits. When they notice that i don't eat the mango, they ask why. Therefore i give my reason - I don't like to eat the mango from this country, because i don't like it's taste. Then they start question me on what make me think like that, as they found nothing wrong with the mango taste. I say i have eaten before some other mango from other countries and it taste better. They then keep quiet. I add on that they could buy that type mango from that particular store. Still they keep quiet. I continue add on that once they tried it, they will notice the different. But they just keep quiet and walk away to get back to their work position.

I was blur and alone in the situation.

What's wrong with my conversation?
Anything wrong with me?
Am i saying too much?
Am i asking too much assurance or clarification from others??

I never say that i " you must agree with me", i just want some conversation.
But all i get is quietiness.

After that, i also walk away. No one talk anymore.

Sad.
But it's happens frequently.

Therefore i was thinking, is it that i am wrong in some way. But it seems that i will never get any answer.
For now, i guess.

Therefore, i post the subject name as "self-assurance?"
I was wondering whether am i at fault to ask assurance and clarification too a many time.